3 things my teens and I learned from the Loughlin-Huffman college scandalCindy Price
I haven’t seen Eileen since last summer. Our sons grew up together and now are college sophomores. For various reasons — she lives in the mountains, we both have busy schedules — our paths never seem to cross. Something nudged her recently, though, and she picked up the phone.
I’m so glad she did. Friendship is the not-so-secret ingredient of a happy life, but friendships require attention and effort. They require love.
One of the things Eileen and I talked about was how much we find ourselves missing Dylan and Evan even though this is their second year of college and their away-ness isn’t new. Maybe it was because they were just home for winter break. She and Dylan did a bunch of skiing, and then she got to coddle him after he had his wisdom teeth removed. Now he’s back in Wisconsin with ambitious plans for summer that mean he probably won’t come home to Colorado.
This weekend she and I will hang out, drink some wine, catch up on each other’s news and, while we’re at it, put together Valentine’s care packages for the college boys. Doesn’t that seem like a cozy thing to do on this wintry first weekend of February?
If hosting a little get-together will help you shake the winter blues, you and your friends who are also college parents can make care packages together. It’s easy. Stock up on boxes (medium sized, flat-rate Priority Mail boxes from the U.S.P.S. work well) and ask everyone to bring multiples of a single small item from the above list (or something of their own creation). Double check student allergies. Everyone can sign the Valentine that gets popped inside each box. Your students will love the surprise!