Get stories and expert advice on all things related to college and parenting.
Is It Time to Talk to Your Teen About Paying for College?Alyssa Abel
One of the best ways for your rising high school senior to take some pressure off this fall is to write their Common Application essay over the summer.
Completing the Common App general essay is a big box to check off. This is especially key if your student plans to apply Early Decision or Early Action, but even students who are still considering schools and finalizing their list will feel great getting this task done.
And some good news: You don’t need to hire an essay tutor. Instead, share this advice from professional essay coaches Marlene Kern Fischer and Helene Hirsch Wingens!
Good writing takes time. Don’t wait until the week before applications are due to start writing the essays. No matter how terrific a writer you are, the earlier you start, the better the end product will be. That’s a guarantee.
Everyone has stories to tell. First, look at the prompts (which are the same as last year). There are seven choices — choose the two or three that appeal to you most, get comfortable with a pad of paper or your laptop, and brainstorm. Once you decide on your favorite prompt and have a broad idea of what your narrative will be, just start writing.
It doesn’t have to be beautiful writing. The first draft won’t be. Your primary objective for the first draft is merely to put words on a page. Tell a story and flesh it out with concrete details.
You need not have cured cancer or battled adversity to produce a narrative that reads well. You don’t even need a “wow” moment; you just need to reveal something about yourself and allow your personality to shine.
Now that you have your thoughts down, read them over carefully and decide whether or not your answer responds to the prompt. If it does, you can begin rewriting. If it doesn't, start over.
Be prepared to discard several first drafts until you produce one that really speaks to you. I often end up throwing away most of my initial drafts and frequently use my second paragraph as an opener in the next draft because I decide that the first paragraph doesn’t get to the point quickly enough. You may discover a better angle halfway through the essay — even in your conclusion.
Don’t try to make forgetting to eat lunch last Monday sound like a life changing or harrowing experience. You need not have cured cancer or battled adversity to produce a narrative that reads well. You don’t even need a “wow” moment; you just need to reveal something about yourself and allow your personality to shine. The best personal statement I ever read was about a young man who had an “aha” moment as a counselor at summer camp when he realized that his campers viewed him as an adult.
If you’re not funny, now is not the moment to start writing comedy. If you’re not Shakespeare, don't attempt iambic pentameter. This is YOUR story and YOUR writing, so be authentically YOU.
Get help editing but not too much help. Your personal statement needs to be in your voice. If you ask all of your cousins who majored in English to read it, you'll get dozens of revision suggestions, resulting in a discordant symphony of different voices. Pick a few people you trust to help you with the editing process and stick with them.
You’ve spent a lot of time thinking and writing and you’ve crafted a solid essay. It would be nothing short of tragic to submit a personal statement with careless grammatical errors and typos. Spend a few dollars to send your essay to an online copy editing service.
In addition, stick to the word count; it’s there for a reason.
If you’ve completed all of the above steps, you are DONE. It’s time to declare your personal statement finished. I’ve seen people hold onto an essay and change a word here and a word there until the bitter end. At some point, that will only make you crazy. It’s now time to tackle those supplemental essays!
Marlene Kern Fischer is a wife, mother of three sons, food shopper extraordinaire, blogger and essay editor. A founding contributor and advisor at CollegiateParent, her work has also been featured on Huffington Post, Grown and Flown, Parent and Co., Kveller, Her View From Home, the Erma Bombeck Writers' Workshop, MockMom, Better After 50, Beyond Your Blog and The SITS Girls. You can read more of Marlene's work by visiting her CollegiateParent author page and on her site, "Thoughts From Aisle Four."
Helene Hirsch Wingens is mother of three boys…wife…daughter…friend…writer…retired lawyer…Managing Editor at Grown and Flown.