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Adapted from an article by Laura Hanby Hudgens originally published on https://www.collegiateparent.com.
We believe in the value of extracurricular activities. In college this slice of life is even more important. From political organizations to cultural clubs, Greek life to intramural sports, Southern is host to an enticing variety of extracurricular options. southernct.campuslabs.com/engage
Academics always come first and balance is key, but the benefits of getting involved on campus are clear.
When she was in college, my friend Lea chose not to get involved in campus activities. “I was from a small town, and I had a close-knit group of high school friends,” Lea remembered. “The idea of trying to connect with a whole new group of people was scary. At the time it just seemed easier to go home on the weekends.”
Of course, Lea later recognized that she missed out. She didn’t want her daughter to make the same mistake, so last year when Allie started college, Lea encouraged her get out of her comfort zone and get involved. Allie did just that and plugged into a campus social club. A year later Allie is thriving. She has made a lot of new friends and feels connected and at home on campus.
Did your student play a sport in high school? Serve in student government? Was your student an avid hiker, dancer or volunteer? There are clubs on campus to fit these interests or students can create their own club though the SCSU Office of Student Involvement and Leadership: www.southernct.edu/office-student-involvement/index.html.
Drew played basketball in high school, but after four years of intense competition was relieved that the pressure was off and happy to put his hoops days behind him. Then in college his friends encouraged him to sign up for intramural basketball. In this more relaxed atmosphere, Drew found that he enjoyed the sport more than he ever had before.
College is the perfect time for your student to try out something new. Maybe your student always wanted to write for the school newspaper but never had time. Your student wants to try theater or fencing, ballroom dancing or karate. The great thing about college is that learning isn’t confined to the classroom. Extracurricular activities are a way for students to learn more about themselves.
First-year and sophomores typically focus on activities that will help them get acquainted and have fun. For upper-class students, activities like student government, student-directed media, professional clubs, volunteer work and internships can provide job-related skills and experience.
As a senior, Alan served as a Resident Assistant. This turned out to be far more than just a way to reduce his room and board bill. His mom said that being an RA helped define Alan’s role as a leader and brought out his desire to help others. In part because of this experience, Alan gravitated to a career as a police officer.
So have your student attend one of the SCSU Involvement Fairs, explore the SCSU Lingo list and also keep an SCSU “Bucket List” of fun and engaging things to do and places to go. go.southernct.edu/wow.
Check out our famous bi-annual Week of Welcome (WOW) daily schedule of activities that the SCSU Division of Student Affairs provided for your students throughout the first week of classes — August 29 to September 3rd — to get them excited, connected and involved. These events ranged from an outdoor ice cream social with President Joe, to a sunset yoga class, pizza parties, Taekwondo class, “speed-friending” program, painting class, Latin dance class, a campus visit of our favorite therapy dogs, a football game and tailgate party and much, much more! go.southernct.edu/wow/index.php
Campus involvement is an important part of the overall college experience. Encourage your student to get involved, but don’t push. Keep in mind that making independent decisions, and even mistakes, is a crucial part of becoming an adult. And that, of course, is one of our main goals for our students during their college years!
About the author: Laura Hanby Hudgens is a freelance writer and part-time high school teacher who lives with her family on a buffalo farm in the Ozark hills. Her work has appeared on CollegiateParent, The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, Parent.co, Grown and Flown and more. When she isn’t working, Laura loves reading classic literature, baking pseudo-healthy desserts, knitting poorly, and hanging out with her husband and four kids.